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How We Feel vs Calm

They differ on 7 of 10 things we check. No winner here: the better one is the one that fits what you need and how you'd pay.

How We Feel

You check in by choosing the word that fits how you feel, add a note if you like, and the app suggests short strategies and shows patterns over time.

Calm

Calm helps you relax and sleep with guided meditations, Sleep Stories, music and breathing exercises.

Where they differ

Good for
How We Feel: People who want to get better at noticing and naming their emotions; Anyone who wants a free mood journal with no ads or subscription
Calm: Beginners who want short guided meditations; People who fall asleep better with stories, soundscapes or music
Cost
How We Feel: Free
Calm: Free version, or $79.99/year or $16.99/month
How you pay
How We Feel: Free
Calm: Free, I'll pay myself
Where
How We Feel: iPhone, Android
Calm: iPhone, Android, Web
Research
How We Feel: Early research
Calm: Strong research support
Privacy
How We Feel: Grade A+
Calm: Grade C
Sells your data
How We Feel: No
Calm: Yes

The same for both: kind of help (an app i use on my own), probably not for (anyone in crisis: call or text 988), hipaa (no).

In crisis or thinking about suicide? In the US, call or text 988. This page is information from our reviews, not medical advice.